100% Responsibility for Everything!

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Apr 30

This above all: To thine own self be true, and it must follow as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man. – Shakespeare 

Before you can start creating the life of your dreams you’re going to have to come to the realization that you are 100% responsible for what happens in your life. As we learned in previous lessons your thoughts have produced all the results in your life. Whether you created them purposely by directing your thoughts to your dreams and desires or unconsciously by worrying about or fearing what you did not want to occur, the bottom line is, we all have created everything in our lives.

W. Clement Stone, president of the Combined Insurance Company of America and editor of Success Magazine for many years taught his mentees that the principle of 100% responsibility was the first step in achieving their goals. Stone told them that being 100% responsible was “the prerequisite for creating a life of success. It is only by acknowledging that you have created everything up until now that you can take charge of creating the future you want. If you realize that you have created your current conditions, then you can un-create them and recreate them at will.”

When you really think about it, being 100% responsible is actually a very liberating as well as empowering thing. It puts you in complete control of your life. The problem is that we’ve been taught to believe that outside forces are responsible for our welfare or lack of it. We’ve been taught to blame others for our misfortune and lack of opportunity. To take full responsibility is a scary thing for many people because then they have no one to blame for their poor results or misfortune. The truth of the matter is that those people have given their power away to others through their belief that they are not in charge of their own lives. They have in essence made an effect their cause (remember the Law of Cause and Effect) and the Law of Attraction is bringing them the precise results they believe in, thereby creating their unfortunate conditions! In reality the entire Ultimate Success Formula that I will teach you is a principle-based pattern for taking full and complete responsibility for your life, success and future! Every exercise I will have you do is geared to help you gain clarity of thinking and generate the power to direct your mind and life on purpose. To do this you must stop blaming anyone (including yourself and your past), stop making excuses or looking for the cause of your failures anywhere other than your own thinking, belief system and mindset. Now, I’m not saying blame your mindset, I’m saying discover the underlying limiting belief, thought or action that is producing the negative result and take responsibility by converting it to the correct belief, thought or action that will produce the result you desire. The key is to realize and accept the fact that you are the one creating your life and results. Your current life is the result of your beliefs, past thoughts and actions. You are the one who controls what goes into your mind from TV, movies and Internet content to books and magazines to the people you associate with. Every thought, every feeling, every action is under your control. You are the only one who has the power to direct your own thinking and your mind 100% of the time. If you relinquish that right it is 100% your responsibility to experience the results of that choice good, bad or indifferent (and it’s usually not good). In my opinion, it’s much easier to take full responsibility and become good at producing positive results than it is to let someone else or external conditions control your life. I know that, for myself, not being in control of my results ruins my chances for success and happiness. Through trial and error and the study of these Principles, I’ve learned that true success is dependent on my taking 100% responsibility.

In the next article we will focus on the very important topic of who we believe ourselves to be. Our self-concept is the single most powerful element in our mindset because it determines what we will allow in our lives and sets all boundaries as to what is possible in our present and future. Until then Please leave me your comments and questions below and share this post with everyone you care about. Also become a partner in my empowerment community at http://facebook.com/carlosmarinlive and promote it to everyone you love and care about so we can help millions of people raise their consciousness and get free in 2012! God bless and live your passionCarlos Marin

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Margarita Martinez April 30, 2012

Interesante como otros tuyos,gracias Carlos.

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    Carlos April 30, 2012

    Gracias Margarita, sigue aprendiendo y aplicando lo que aprendes cada día. Bendiciones

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JOSE FUENTES BECERRIL April 30, 2012

Hola Carlos
te agradezco mucho toda esta informacion que nos estas proporcionando.
te comento que el dia sabado 28 de abril hace apenas dos dias, fallecio mi padre, y casualmente este articulo que estoy leyendo el dia de hoy, me impulsa a seguir haciendome responsable de mis decisiones, pase lo que pase en mi exterior, esas circunstancias las debemos de manejar de tal manera que nosotros tengamos el control de lo que hacemos, como lo hacemos y porque lo hacemos, por eso ante esta pena que nos embarga a toda mi familia, es mii responsabilidad lo que hare y lo que no hare en estos dias venideros, para continuar enla buscqueda del exito. mil gracias saludos

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    Carlos April 30, 2012

    Hola Jose, antes que nada recibe mis pésames por tu gran perdida. Muchas veces no entendemos porque pasa lo que pasa en nuestras vidas pero cuando tomas responsabilidad al 100% como estas haciendo siempre encontraras el sentido que te ayudara a bendecir a tus seres amados y impulsarte a donde deseas estar en tu vida. Te deseo el éxito, las riquezas y felicidad que te mereces!

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Mario Espínola April 30, 2012

Hola Carlos!! Como siempre, excelente tu artículo. Sos uno de los mentores más grandes que tuve la fortuna de conocer. A través de tus audios y …espero algúndía tener la chance de estrechar tu mano, maestro. Estoy siguiendo tus enseñanzas en este nuevo año y esperando la llegada a Argentina de tu libro- Gracias Carlos… y a vivir nuestra pasión!!

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    Carlos April 30, 2012

    Mario, me alegro que te esta ayudando y yo tambien espero estar por Argentina en el futuro cercano! Exitos

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Mario Espínola April 30, 2012

Por cierto..no pude acceder a la pagina donde da los detalles para adquiri el sistema de exito ilimitado…ya se lanzó nuevamente? Cómo lo aduiero? GRacias!!!

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NIDIA BERNAL April 30, 2012

HOLA , CARLOS , soy tu seguidora de cada clases y cada articulo que me envia muchicimas gracias, cada uno son muy interesante y cada uno hace la diferiencia en las ensenanzas que nos brindas yo tengo mis metas a seguir y tengo fe de lograrlas y para eso estoy atenta a tus ensenanzas que me parecen de mucha importancia espero que cada uno de tus seguidore le sean de gran probecho puedo decirte que a mi si lo es , tambien te deceo que logre tu propocito con estas grandes ideas de dar a otro lo que a ti te sobra de todas esas cosas buenas que sabes y de verdad que habemos muchas personas que necesitamos de esas buenas orientaciones que nos brinda y de gratis sigue adelante y que dios te bendiga por siempre yo enecesito tu apollo cada uno de tus capitulo ban de mis manos yo me digo pero que interesante hoy no hubo clases que paso yo tengo que llegar a ser national en ambit en menos de los tres anos se que lo lograre porque asi me lo he propuesto por eso estoy con tigo bendiciones hasta pronto

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    Carlos April 30, 2012

    Nidia, me da mucho gusto saber que te esta ayudando tanto y sigue aprendiendo y poniendo todo en practica. Hoy si hubo seminario, me parece que hubo un problema con el sistema de email de la compañía que lo anuncia. Puedes escuchar la grabación mañana. Bendiciones

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argelia April 30, 2012

ola carlos soy argelia blanco con mucho carino desde la ciudad de katy tx me quedo sim paqlabras al ver tu tremendo potencial gracias portodo lo que haces mucho exito muchicimas bendiciones

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    Carlos April 30, 2012

    Gracias Argelia y muchísimas bendiciones para ti también!

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Carlos April 30, 2012

@Jose Fuentes. Mis pesames en el fallecimiento de tu padre. Mi papa fallecio hace poco tambien. Te envito a que veas un video que esta en el sitio de Carlos sobre el tema y espero que te ayude en este momento en tu vida.

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Carlos April 30, 2012

Mario, esta en http://sistemadeexito.com si por alguna razón no te funciona dejame saber y le digo a los técnicos que lo verifiquen. Saludos

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Sam May 1, 2012

So true what you mention here.We truly are conditioned by so many outside forces that when we meet people who believe in themselves we think of them as arrogant simply because they are in control of there destiny.

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    Carlos May 1, 2012

    Sam, its very true but as the scripture states “To those who have more shall be given and to those who do not have even the little they have shall be taken away.” The Law of Mind is infallible

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Sarah May 1, 2012

The more I read your blogs the more I learn about me and where I want to be in my life.
Thank you

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    Carlos May 1, 2012

    Sarah, you’re welcome and I’ve invested most of my adult life trying to figure out why all of us do what we do so I can help myself and everyone else understand it. Blessings

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Vanina Melendez May 1, 2012

Wow! Just like you’re accountable for your actions, being responsible for your life is even more empowering. I choose to live in peace, joy, and harmony. I choose to surround myself with persons of like mind.

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    Carlos May 1, 2012

    Vanina, being responsible for your life is the “action” that puts all things in order and gives you the ability to direct your own mind on purpose which is your power, the free will God gave us all. God bless

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Quim May 6, 2012

Genial, Carlos!!! Cuando sale el libro a la venta? Cuando tienes previsto la visita a España??? Barcelona, Madrid,… en qué ciudad??? Cuanto agradezco tus buenas enseñanzas. Eres una bendición.

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    Carlos May 6, 2012

    Quim,

    El libro debe salir en Español en Agosto. Tengo un fin de año bien lleno pero esperamos ir por España en el 2013 y probablemente será a Madrid y Barcelona por lo menos. Bendiciones

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Ramon Amparo Valdez August 10, 2012

Gracias por ser como eres el mundo necesita muchas personas que puedan marca el camino a seguir, gracias por el aporte que esta dejando en mi para que yo llegues a tener la vida de Exito,Riquezas y Felicidad que siempre es sonador. Que Dios te bendigas siempre

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