Why Can’t We Get What We Want All the Time?

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May 09

Most people live life in various stages of frustration because they don’t feel they can be, do or have what they really want. The challenge comes from not having the right answers to questions because oftentimes we don’t even know the right questions to ask. We walk around in a state of doubt and confusion not realizing the huge potential we truly have.

The biggest problem we have, the big thing that keeps us from being all we can be and having everything we want, is the conditioning that we’re not good enough or are unworthy and don’t deserve the good things in life. This mindset is the greatest deterrent to living the good life we were meant to live by Divine Right. 

As you learned in a previous post you came into this world as unlimited potential, like the most incredible supercomputer with a fantastic operating system, but no software. Then, people, conditions and circumstances began to program you.

Consequently, you and I have lived a life of limitation based on the programs that were installed in our minds. However, you still have unlimited potential inherent within you regardless of those programs.

The key to maximizing your potential lies in using your mental power purposely to achieve your desires.

Remember, you and I are individualizations (extensions or projections) of Infinite Intelligence. We are here to express increasingly greater levels of life, love and beauty. It is our right and obligation as children of the Infinite to demonstrate our power and produce success, wealth, health, love and harmonious conditions.

We can only do that through our continual expansion, by directing our own minds on purpose and choosing what we desire. To do this, we must realize that we still are and have unlimited potential within us, even if we are not demonstrating it at this very moment.

This means that we are worthy and deserving of every good thing, and that includes success, wealth, riches, perfect health, perfect body, fantastic relationships, beauty, love, happiness and all the joy that we could ever stand. We are supposed to have and enjoy these things. They are our birthright!

The key is to understand who we really are, the unlimited potential and power within us and the good things we absolutely deserve to have. Then and only then can we access that power to truly make of our lives the masterpiece that we came here to create.

Since the beginning of time, man has been asking: “Who am I?” and, “Why am I here?” When we answer these questions and know the truth behind them, life becomes the joyous adventure it was meant to be.

The most effective way to change your programming is to input new programs into your computer, which is your mind. As you learned previously, the programs stored in your subconscious were installed through repetition.  They run and function automatically. By building our power of faith (by knowing who we really are and the power we really have) and utilizing repetition to install new positive programs, we can begin to delete some of the old limiting programs and replace them with empowering new ones.

One very powerful way to do this is through the use of affirmations or declarations. Psychologists say that the average person has over 60,000 thoughts per day and that over 90% of them are the same thoughts day in and day out.

What most people don’t understand is that a repeated thought becomes a declaration of truth to the subconscious mind. If it’s negative thought, it is a negative affirmation that must produce its material equivalent. That’s why some people claim affirmations don’t work for them—they’re actually repeating negative words and thoughts over and over. These are actually negative affirmations and they are unconsciously repeating them far more consistently than any positive ones they are trying to use.

Again, for most people, this is an unconscious process, and they simply are not aware of what they’re thinking, when they’re thinking it, or how often they’re thinking it.

When you use the Ultimate Success Formula, each powerful step in the formula works in concert with the other steps to create exponential positive results. Once you’ve committed to take full responsibility for your life the next step is… Know who you are at a very deep level, and I mean particularly from the spiritual and mental realm.

In the next article in our series we will learn some “Power Affirmations” that will help you overcome some of these limitations and get you on the road to achieving your dreams! Until then…

Please leave me your comments and questions below and share this post with everyone you care about. Also become a partner in my empowerment community at http://facebook.com/carlosmarinlive and promote it to everyone you love and care about. The world needs YOU and your contribution so we can help millions of people raise their consciousness and get free in 2012! God bless and live your passion…

 Carlos Marin

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Arturo Ballardo May 9, 2012

Dios te bendiga por toda la ayuda que nos das. Es muy altruiista de tu parte ya que no necesitas hacerlo.
Tu inspiracion ha servido de mucho para crecer mi negocio de Ambit.

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    Carlos May 13, 2012

    Arturo, es mi placer y misión de vida hacerlo. Como dice el verso” a quien se le ha dado mucho, mucho se le espera.” Seguimos en esta tremenda jornada hacia el éxito, riquezas y felicidad! Bendiciones

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Sarah May 9, 2012

My aha moment. Welcome back

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    Carlos May 13, 2012

    Sarah, this one is a great aha moment to have as it really puts you on the road to your dreams very quickly! Blessings

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Trevor May 9, 2012

Hi Carlos,

I love your blogs…..Thankyou.

Most people don’t believe that it is now possible for man to live to 120 years and be fit and healthy as God said we could in Genesis 6:3.

I am passionate and feel I have been called to get the message out that with the latest 2009 Nobel Prize winning discoveries in Telomere Biology many scientists now believe this is possible.

Telomerase Activation will enable many people to live much healthier and longer lives.

We need to get this message out. Most people don’t even realize what is possible. They are having 40-50 years stolen from them through ignorance.

Have a great day,

Trev

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    Carlos May 13, 2012

    Hi Trevor, I appreciate you and the tremendous work you’re doing. You have a very passionate mission that will bless many people. May God strengthen, inspire and bless you to achieve your purpose and your dreams! My best always, Carlos

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Daniel May 9, 2012

Once again your greatness shines with your wisdom and sharing it with those like myself that are always willing to learn and experence that mindset with action and confidence ,and working on it every day brings you so much closer to your goals and dreams 🙂

Carlos thank you dearly from the bottom of my heart for you are my beacon of light that never goes out !

Your friend up north Dan

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    Carlos May 13, 2012

    Dan, I appreciate your support and kind words. I feel truly grateful to be able to provide fantastic people like you with the inspiration and empowerment to help you take your life to the unlimited potential that you have and are! God bless

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carlos May 9, 2012

porque a veces la propia familia te cierra puertas ???
que tanto una persona puede rasonar para aprender a ser util???

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    Carlos May 13, 2012

    Carlos, muchas veces es por celos y otras porque como ellos ya han abandonado sus sueños creen que tu lo debes hacer también. A veces es por tratar de protegerte de ser herido y otras es porque ellos se sintieran mal si tu logras tus sueños y ellos ya se dieron por vencidos. De cualquier forma nunca dejes que nadie te robe tus sueños y no tomes consejos de gente que no tienen el resultado que tu quieres lograr! Bendiciones

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Martha Caballero May 9, 2012

Hola Carlos:

Gracias por este excelente Post.

Tienes mucha razón, lamentablemente muchos no nos damos cuenta del inmenso potencial con el que fuimos creados y nos resignamos a vivir la vida de forma fácil y conformista .

Si nos hicieramos las preguntas tan importantes que mencionas, seguramente nos pondríamos a reflexionar y a partir de ello, empezar a desarrollarnos y superarnos.

Todos los grandes líderes y pensadores coinciden en afirmar el inmenso poder de nuestros pensamientos. Si dedicáramos algún tiempo a reflexionar en lo que pensamos y a tratar de convertirlos en positivos, ellos serían nuestra mejor arma para alcanzar la vida digna que merecemos vivir.

Bendiciones,

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    Carlos May 13, 2012

    Hola Martha, Gracias por tus comentarios y tienes toda la razón. Sigue en el camino siendo un tremendo ejemplo para las personas que vas a lograr todos tus sueños y ayudar a muchos otros lograrlos también! Bendiciones

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Fabio Magaña May 10, 2012

hola carlos gracias por el post
Me esta sirviendo muchisimo pero se me hace dificil salirme de mi
Confort Zone como dicen en ingles y existe ese temor de querer saber que pasara despues?

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    Carlos May 13, 2012

    Fabio, eso nos pasa mucho cuando hemos logrado cierto nivel de éxito que nos hace cómodos pero la Comodidad es el mayor enemigo de la Grandeza! Tenemos que enfrentar nuestros miedos al fracaso/éxito y superarlos teniendo un deseo ardiente y el compromiso para lograrlo. En estas lecciones seguiré enseñando como hacerlo! Exito y riquezas

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Marilu Nunez May 10, 2012

I needed this to continue my journey to success. Its funny how we can know things but knowing things without putting action into them is as good as not knowing them at all. Thank you for this message, I have to continue programming my mind, the faster I learn to do that, the faster I can manifest the life I was purposed to! Thanks again Carlos!

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    Carlos May 13, 2012

    Marilu, you are quite right on all of the above. What I know about you is you are a champion, a real winner that God has imbued with unlimited potential. It is time for you to shine your light and bless all the world! God bless you and your beautiful family always

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Sergio May 10, 2012

Hola Carlos, como estas???

Me recomiendas grabar esas afirmaciones empoderantes con mi propia voz y escucharlas una y otra ves durante el dia en mi iPod???
Esa repeticion es la que hara que se inserten como el nuevo sotware que deseo instalar en mi super computadora???
Asi podre crear mi nueva super identidad en la que yo crea desde el fondo de mi que me meresco todo aquello que siempre he soñado???

Ese cambio de sofware es lo que mas necesito.

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    Carlos May 13, 2012

    Hola Sergio, te recomiendo que te des cuenta durante el día cuando estas sintiendo una emoción negativa y te preguntes “en que estoy pensando?”, y entonces reversalo pensando en algo que te hace sentir agradecido o feliz y entonces enfoca en tu deseo mas ardiente. También puedes grabar tus afirmaciones y escucharlas cuando te estas durmiendo o meditando. Muchas mas técnicas vendrán en artículos próximos! Bendicones

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Loveta May 10, 2012

Simply amazing Carlos, so on target and poetically put.

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    Carlos May 13, 2012

    Thanks Loveta, I hadn’t been called a poet before but I’ll do everything in my power to live up to that and exceed your expectations! Blessings

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argelia May 11, 2012

ola carlos un saludo especialpara ti y cecy cuando estava leyendo analice muy bien lo que lei y ciento que ya e superado muchicimas cosas en mivida despues que inicie a trabajar para ambit e aprendido mucho de usted y de todos los lideres yde mis consultores pero ahora que se solo se que nadase que significa esto que tengo queser lamejor estudiante yaprender mucho mas para yegar a ser la persona que quiero yegar a ser y en lo espiritual me concidero un cienporciento ciento que amo alos demas como ami misma y otra cosa que e superado es que lo malo lo estoy aprendiendo a asimilar como bueno analisandolo bien sacando de eyo todo lo positivo tengo mucho mas que comparti mas adelante muchas bendiciones y exitos les desea argelia blanco

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    Carlos May 13, 2012

    Hola Argelia, Lo mas importante es ser la mejor estudiante y seguir aplicando lo que estas aprendiendo. Tienes todo el potencial dentro de ti para lograr todo lo que deseas, así que a por ello! Bendiciones

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LILIANA May 12, 2012

GRACIAS,Carlos; Dios te bendiga por tu generosidad al compartir tu sabiduria con nosotros…..

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    Carlos May 13, 2012

    De nada Liliana, es mi placer y mision de vida! Bendiciones

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Dave Ortiz May 14, 2012

Carlos muchas Gracias !!! ahora si estamos limpiado esta computadora y a poner Nuevos Software y a mantenerla Limpia y activa!! ahora si a seleccionar lo que viene,por que el ambiente esta llenos de virus y malas vibraciones Negativas.Carlos que tu me recomiendas o que ejercicios me das para seguir limpiando toda esta mala informacion que se filtro desde hace muchos años.Que tu me sugieres. Mis padres no son exitoso,ni tampoco mis familiares mas cercano,ellos son de un sistema muy tradicional,creo que tener un titulo universitario para ellos lo es todo,y sin enbargo Yo Soy un Soñador y Creo en mi y se que voy a llegar,desde que te escuche y vi tus video mis creencia se a transformado en una maquina de creatividad y te entusiasmo.No quiero ser inrespetuoso con ellos,lo unico que se decir Yo sere que canbiere ese paradigma. Gracias Amigo y mi gran Mentor, Dios te Bendiga a ti y a Cesy y a toda tu bella familia… God bless!!!

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    Carlos May 15, 2012

    Dave, estas totalmente correcto y es importante seguir limpiando tu super computadora y borrando los programas limitantes. El proximo articulo te dara varias estrategias usando afirmaciones y el siguiente te empezara a enseñar como cambiar to auto concepto. Sigue haciendo lo que estas haciendo y tu vida se transformara! Bendiciones

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Fernando Rivera May 18, 2012

Hola Carlos; tuve el gusto de conocerte en el año 92 en Mexico y me da muchisimo gusto ver que sigues ayudando a mucha gente, he aprendido mucho de ti, sigue como hasta ahora. Un abrazo.

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alberto December 22, 2012

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